Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Can I have some fresh air...

You know a breath of fresh air. That’s really what most women want from a man (well some, just go with me). You don’t want to find yourself coughing in the fumes. You don’t want to feel like you’re not thinking clear. You don’t want to feel like this environment is not good for you and is damaging you. You want to feel like you are in the right space, that you can see the road ahead and that it’s healthy and supporting your way forward. That's what I mean by saying; sometimes all you want to feel is good, in a simple way good. It just has to be really easy and really good for you in an uncomplicated way. Like breathing simple, deep clean air in and out simple.

This is often hard to find, because some men are just hard to take in. They are bad for you and you feel like you’re in a fog of pollution and you can’t find the way out. The air looks clean but really it’s not. So you're stumbling and you're trying to figure out why am I so deep in pollution , it’s hard to breathe, it’s hard to see, and instead you're looking for an out and your trying to get out of a bad and heavy situation. So you can breathe.

Good clean air is good for all areas of your being and your health. That's why women ask for space. “I need space". In other words I need to get away from your bad energy, you’re clogging my vision, you’re polluting my future and preventing me from some aspect of my life I feel I need fulfilled. And with you here it’s not happening.

So some relationships can be done and others cannot be done, on the basis of energy. What are you to her? What is he to you? Things can start off good and end up really bad for you.

So what do I want? (Say it with me) it’s simple all I want is fresh air!